Comments on: Approaching http://thegeeksdatingguide.com The step by step dating guide for the skinny, the fat, the ugly, the pale, the geek and the nerds alike! Fri, 21 Nov 2008 09:04:35 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.3.3 By: Carly http://thegeeksdatingguide.com/attraction-and-seduction/approaching/#comment-73 Carly Wed, 09 Apr 2008 00:14:56 +0000 http://thegeeksdatingguide.com/attraction-and-seduction/approaching/#comment-73 Okay, first of all, never, EVER start off a conversation with a girl you've never met by saying "Do you dye your hair?" or "Nice top." The first one makes you sound like an asshole, the second like a fag. Telling a girl you've never met that she's beautiful is dumb, and will make her think that you're just like every other guy. Compliments about the small things are great, like charm bracelets and freckles as was said above. Joking is great! Not real jokes, just funny childhood stories or something hilarious that your boss said. Okay, first of all, never, EVER start off a conversation with a girl you’ve never met by saying “Do you dye your hair?” or “Nice top.” The first one makes you sound like an asshole, the second like a fag. Telling a girl you’ve never met that she’s beautiful is dumb, and will make her think that you’re just like every other guy. Compliments about the small things are great, like charm bracelets and freckles as was said above.

Joking is great! Not real jokes, just funny childhood stories or something hilarious that your boss said.

]]> By: Meagan http://thegeeksdatingguide.com/attraction-and-seduction/approaching/#comment-66 Meagan Mon, 07 Apr 2008 19:01:56 +0000 http://thegeeksdatingguide.com/attraction-and-seduction/approaching/#comment-66 Haha, what I think she was trying to say is don't over-compliment with things like "You're so beautiful" because odds are she's heard it before. If you're genuinely interested in this girl you should point out something more personal (no, not her breasts) like her cute freckles or original bracelet (yes, girls do like it when you notice their clothes) and leave it at that. DO NOT tell her that her eyes make you melt inside or her smile lights up the whole room...at least not yet. Those kinds of compliments mean so much more from a man you know loves you for you. Also, you CAN start with shoes when initiating a conversation. My favorite pick up line that I have received? It's: "Oh, I love your shoes, especially the way you have them clashing with your shirt like that! It's so cool." Granted, that may seem really insulting to the more dense girls out there and I definitely wouldn't try this on if you're new to picking up women. Just know the secret is in the confidence and tone of your voice. Be yourself, even be a little FULL of yourself when you start that conversation with that really beautiful girl. Good luck! Haha, what I think she was trying to say is don’t over-compliment with things like “You’re so beautiful” because odds are she’s heard it before. If you’re genuinely interested in this girl you should point out something more personal (no, not her breasts) like her cute freckles or original bracelet (yes, girls do like it when you notice their clothes) and leave it at that. DO NOT tell her that her eyes make you melt inside or her smile lights up the whole room…at least not yet. Those kinds of compliments mean so much more from a man you know loves you for you.

Also, you CAN start with shoes when initiating a conversation. My favorite pick up line that I have received? It’s: “Oh, I love your shoes, especially the way you have them clashing with your shirt like that! It’s so cool.”

Granted, that may seem really insulting to the more dense girls out there and I definitely wouldn’t try this on if you’re new to picking up women. Just know the secret is in the confidence and tone of your voice. Be yourself, even be a little FULL of yourself when you start that conversation with that really beautiful girl.

Good luck!

]]> By: n http://thegeeksdatingguide.com/attraction-and-seduction/approaching/#comment-38 n Fri, 28 Mar 2008 18:55:54 +0000 http://thegeeksdatingguide.com/attraction-and-seduction/approaching/#comment-38 ha! I like the critique by c, the female. She writes: "Don't worry about compliments..." and then she goes on to say... "Toss in a compliment here and there..." is that stereotypical, or is it just me? ha! I like the critique by c, the female. She writes:

“Don’t worry about compliments…”

and then she goes on to say…

“Toss in a compliment here and there…”

is that stereotypical, or is it just me?

]]> By: XR http://thegeeksdatingguide.com/attraction-and-seduction/approaching/#comment-37 XR Fri, 28 Mar 2008 14:39:48 +0000 http://thegeeksdatingguide.com/attraction-and-seduction/approaching/#comment-37 “Hey, where did you get that top from?” - that comment could be successful... because girls would like having a (cliche) gay friend to shop with. Why else would you ask such question? C made some pretty good points here, too. What I suggest is approaching the girl and making a comment about whatever's happening at that moment. Because seriously, how is "Hey, nice shoes!" a good conversation starter? You'd be better off talking about the weather. “Hey, where did you get that top from?” - that comment could be successful… because girls would like having a (cliche) gay friend to shop with. Why else would you ask such question?

C made some pretty good points here, too.

What I suggest is approaching the girl and making a comment about whatever’s happening at that moment. Because seriously, how is “Hey, nice shoes!” a good conversation starter? You’d be better off talking about the weather.

]]> By: al http://thegeeksdatingguide.com/attraction-and-seduction/approaching/#comment-35 al Fri, 28 Mar 2008 07:10:55 +0000 http://thegeeksdatingguide.com/attraction-and-seduction/approaching/#comment-35 Awesome tips there dude, but please can you proof your document, it is missing some words and also may have wrong words in it. It is kind of hard to read. Thanks. btw, I stumbled here. :) ciao Awesome tips there dude, but please can you proof your document, it is missing some words and also may have wrong words in it. It is kind of hard to read.
Thanks.

btw, I stumbled here. :)

ciao

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