Exercise 2: Look At Others
For this, go into the city center, or a busy road, where you fill find lots of women in the area. As you walk past, try looking into the eyes of every single attractive (or standard looking girl if you want to start low) and keep them locked until they either look at you or they go out of your sight.
Keeping your face neutral or with a slight smile is essential because you don’t want to creep them out, and make sure to not look away if they look back.
Why this helps - This is a confidence building skill. You need to learn to build confidence in order to be able to approach the girl you want, so if you lack confidence or are just too shy, this should really help you!
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How does this help?
Comment by Saxon — March 21, 2008 @ 9:04 am
This dosent necessarily help though, by staring at people in the way you suggest your likely to get some odd stares back - how will that help confidence?
Comment by jimmy c — March 27, 2008 @ 11:19 pm
Wow, this is a good tip. Looking a girl in the eyes with out being terrified does 2 things. One, it means you are looking at HER not her chest. Silly us, we like that. Secondly, no girl wants a guy who’s scared. We love guys who can meet our gaze, and aren’t intimidated. It’s HOT. It makes us hot. So, if you can’t make eye contact with anyone, how are you ever going to do it with a girl you like, when the pressure is really on? If you are doing the above right, it shouldn’t be creepy.
Comment by Mandi — April 2, 2008 @ 3:27 am
Mandi is so right. Locking eyes with a girl is one of the biggest turn ons there is. Eyes communicate EVERYTHING!
Comment by Carly Redfearn — April 9, 2008 @ 12:08 am