Comments on: Female Logic http://thegeeksdatingguide.com The step by step dating guide for the skinny, the fat, the ugly, the pale, the geek and the nerds alike! Fri, 21 Nov 2008 11:59:39 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.3.3 By: Dimitris http://thegeeksdatingguide.com/first-steps/female-logic/#comment-45 Dimitris Wed, 02 Apr 2008 22:45:55 +0000 http://thegeeksdatingguide.com/first-steps/female-logic/#comment-45 To quote Mandi : ""Also, we KNOW we are irrational! Often you can do more by being sympathetic and trying to understand than just patronizing."" HOW can you admit that you are sometimes irrational and at the same time you ask for understanding? You know we can't understand something irrational! That's the whole point of logic. To quote Mandi : “”Also, we KNOW we are irrational! Often you can do more by being sympathetic and trying to understand than just patronizing.”"

HOW can you admit that you are sometimes irrational and at the same time you ask for understanding?
You know we can’t understand something irrational!
That’s the whole point of logic.

]]> By: Advoor http://thegeeksdatingguide.com/first-steps/female-logic/#comment-24 Advoor Wed, 26 Mar 2008 21:29:43 +0000 http://thegeeksdatingguide.com/first-steps/female-logic/#comment-24 Have to agree with you Kurt, I've been there once, but I guess its the way you handle it that decides weather it turns into friendship or more. GamerDarling - yea I get where you coming from to. Guess I need to reconsider some of the most vital things again :P Have to agree with you Kurt, I’ve been there once, but I guess its the way you handle it that decides weather it turns into friendship or more.

GamerDarling - yea I get where you coming from to. Guess I need to reconsider some of the most vital things again :P

]]> By: GamerDarling http://thegeeksdatingguide.com/first-steps/female-logic/#comment-20 GamerDarling Wed, 26 Mar 2008 20:29:15 +0000 http://thegeeksdatingguide.com/first-steps/female-logic/#comment-20 There's alot more to it m'dear. ;) Yes, alot of it is based in emotion. You got that part right. But using the emotions is a titch different. When we get emotional in an argument, half of the time, we don't care about your logic, we just want to know that you understand what we are saying. The place you should always start in a disagreement with a girl is seeing where she is coming from. If you make sure that she understands that you see it from her point of view, and validate her points be explaining them back, before making points of your own, you'll find it easier to cooperate. Also, when trying to 'get us to like you' you shouldn't do anything that isn't innately you. Do what comes naturally. Can you imagine pretending to be some other guy for the next six months? Year? Decade? Rest of your life? And anyway, the point of dating is to find someone that likes you for you. Not changing yourself to match the ideal someone else has. You should be doing the things for her that you want to do, because you want to, not because it'll trick her into thinking she likes who you are. Doing the sweet things doesn't make us 'associate emotions' it makes us feel new ones. Everything you mentioned were ways of taking care of her, or reminding her that you care about her. It's more of a 'Awww, he cares enough to do ____ for me.' It changes the way we think of you. There’s alot more to it m’dear. ;) Yes, alot of it is based in emotion. You got that part right. But using the emotions is a titch different.

When we get emotional in an argument, half of the time, we don’t care about your logic, we just want to know that you understand what we are saying. The place you should always start in a disagreement with a girl is seeing where she is coming from. If you make sure that she understands that you see it from her point of view, and validate her points be explaining them back, before making points of your own, you’ll find it easier to cooperate.

Also, when trying to ‘get us to like you’ you shouldn’t do anything that isn’t innately you. Do what comes naturally. Can you imagine pretending to be some other guy for the next six months? Year? Decade? Rest of your life?
And anyway, the point of dating is to find someone that likes you for you. Not changing yourself to match the ideal someone else has. You should be doing the things for her that you want to do, because you want to, not because it’ll trick her into thinking she likes who you are.

Doing the sweet things doesn’t make us ‘associate emotions’ it makes us feel new ones. Everything you mentioned were ways of taking care of her, or reminding her that you care about her. It’s more of a ‘Awww, he cares enough to do ____ for me.’ It changes the way we think of you.

]]> By: Kurt http://thegeeksdatingguide.com/first-steps/female-logic/#comment-19 Kurt Wed, 26 Mar 2008 20:17:14 +0000 http://thegeeksdatingguide.com/first-steps/female-logic/#comment-19 Actually I gotta disagree a little bit from experience... you take that route, and there's a high probability you'll become very close and important to her, yes... as a friend. And, well, I think you can guess how much that's gonna suck from there, especially if you truly like the girl Actually I gotta disagree a little bit from experience… you take that route, and there’s a high probability you’ll become very close and important to her, yes… as a friend. And, well, I think you can guess how much that’s gonna suck from there, especially if you truly like the girl

]]> By: Advoor http://thegeeksdatingguide.com/first-steps/female-logic/#comment-17 Advoor Tue, 25 Mar 2008 17:15:33 +0000 http://thegeeksdatingguide.com/first-steps/female-logic/#comment-17 lol, you got a good point there. Guess there's a lot more to female logic then I thought originally :$ Well more work for me :D lol, you got a good point there. Guess there’s a lot more to female logic then I thought originally :$ Well more work for me :D

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