Female Logic
Female logic can get confusing at times. Have you ever been in an argument with a girl, and no matter how clearly and logically you explained your side, she still argues on her point of view?
Let me try to explain how it all works - female logic is basically whatever feels right, or makes the most sense emotionally. If your a big fan of rationality and logic thinking, it may be a real problem for you sometimes connecting with girls, but you can actually turn this around to suit you!
Instead of convincing her that your the man of her dreams, you have to make her feel it.
Make her emotional about things, anything will work. Tell a passionate story, sing her a sweet song, ask her about her memories, the good and the bad - anything that will get her emotional. Once you get to this stage, she will start associating those emotions with you, and slowly you’ll become a lot more important to her as you are the one she trusts with her feelings. Slowly, if these emotions are of those with happy memories, or sad memories (which you should comfort her after), her attachment to you will grow automatically.
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Pingback by Female Logic | The Geeks Dating Guide — March 24, 2008 @ 2:17 pm
While I agree with you somewhat, as one of the irrational, emotional flying balls of estrogen you call women, I think there’s an element missing. Sencerity has to be behind what you do. We can tell if you are only trying, but not meaning it.
Also, we KNOW we are irrational! Often you can do more by being sympathetic and trying to understand than just patronizing.
Comment by Mandi — March 25, 2008 @ 5:40 am
lol, you got a good point there. Guess there’s a lot more to female logic then I thought originally :$ Well more work for me
Comment by Advoor — March 25, 2008 @ 5:15 pm
Actually I gotta disagree a little bit from experience… you take that route, and there’s a high probability you’ll become very close and important to her, yes… as a friend. And, well, I think you can guess how much that’s gonna suck from there, especially if you truly like the girl
Comment by Kurt — March 26, 2008 @ 8:17 pm
There’s alot more to it m’dear.
Yes, alot of it is based in emotion. You got that part right. But using the emotions is a titch different.
When we get emotional in an argument, half of the time, we don’t care about your logic, we just want to know that you understand what we are saying. The place you should always start in a disagreement with a girl is seeing where she is coming from. If you make sure that she understands that you see it from her point of view, and validate her points be explaining them back, before making points of your own, you’ll find it easier to cooperate.
Also, when trying to ‘get us to like you’ you shouldn’t do anything that isn’t innately you. Do what comes naturally. Can you imagine pretending to be some other guy for the next six months? Year? Decade? Rest of your life?
And anyway, the point of dating is to find someone that likes you for you. Not changing yourself to match the ideal someone else has. You should be doing the things for her that you want to do, because you want to, not because it’ll trick her into thinking she likes who you are.
Doing the sweet things doesn’t make us ‘associate emotions’ it makes us feel new ones. Everything you mentioned were ways of taking care of her, or reminding her that you care about her. It’s more of a ‘Awww, he cares enough to do ____ for me.’ It changes the way we think of you.
Comment by GamerDarling — March 26, 2008 @ 8:29 pm
Have to agree with you Kurt, I’ve been there once, but I guess its the way you handle it that decides weather it turns into friendship or more.
GamerDarling - yea I get where you coming from to. Guess I need to reconsider some of the most vital things again
Comment by Advoor — March 26, 2008 @ 9:29 pm
To quote Mandi : “”Also, we KNOW we are irrational! Often you can do more by being sympathetic and trying to understand than just patronizing.”"
HOW can you admit that you are sometimes irrational and at the same time you ask for understanding?
You know we can’t understand something irrational!
That’s the whole point of logic.
Comment by Dimitris — April 2, 2008 @ 10:45 pm