The Geeks Dating Guide

What Girls Want

What girls say they want and what they actually want is different and you must realize this. Ever heard or been told by girls how they want a nice caring guy to take care of them, but they always end up with the wrong guy over and over again? The fact is that girls want a strong confident male who can take care of
them – it doesn’t matter if their nice, smart or whatever, the fact is they want a guy who shows a positive attitude. Work on that, and they will come running to you.

I don’t know about you, but whenever I asked girls, they always said that just wait for the right guy to come by and it will work out. No offense but that’s just bullshit. Even if you just wait for a girl, what’s the chance that the girl will actually like you without you doing anything? All those romance novels, tips and so forth, just forget it and start afresh.

If you want to succeed, expand your focus. There are billions of people in the world. Half of them are females. Out of them only a few million live in the same country and a few 100,000’s live in your area. Now, out of them, only a few 10,000 will be in your age range (for me, I typically go for girls that are either the same age or 1 year younger or older). Now how many girls do you find attractive? For me it’s usually around less then 25% of the girls. Do the math; 2500 girls left.

Now that may be a large number of potential girls that you could try for, but let me tell you the reality – about half of them are already taken, and more then half of them would already have a guy after them. To win the race is what you need to focus on, and the tactics to do that? You will find them right here. Just keep on reading!

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  1. You got this one right! We do want a caring CONFIDENT guy. Since I work in the IT field, trust me, I know geeks. The ones who won’t look me in the eye never have a chance. Who wants an adoring puppy who rolls over whenever you say? Most women want someone that we feel will give us equal footing and an occasional challenge.

    Now some girls really do go for the jerk. That’s a fact, if you want my whole opinion on that, you can see it here.

    Now guys, you have to LIKE who you are and KNOW what a great catch you are. It really is about that positive attitude!

    Comment by Mandi — March 21, 2008 @ 3:10 am

  2. Some girls are geeks too and like geeky guys.

    Comment by Jenni — March 26, 2008 @ 9:34 pm

  3. i agree with most of this

    Comment by jimmy c — March 27, 2008 @ 11:20 pm

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