Taking Her Out

Now you may love going out to a comic book convention or to the arcades, but be prepared to lose all that! Unless the girl you’re going out with is as geeky as you are, you will have to settle with romantic movies and dinner at restaurants. But it doesn’t all have to be that money consuming!

First date - start out with a typical movie or dinner. Movie choice? Leave that up to her. You need to know what she’s into, so if she decides on a chick flick, go in there with a smile and eyes opened all the way through otherwise consider your next outing canceled. If there’s a funny moment and she laughs, go with it. After, head to a decent restaurant and during the meal, make sure to make conversation, asking her questions about her, her life, ambitions, the works - girls love that.

Now onto the question on if you should pay for her or not. Ideally you have two options - yes or no.

Yes - She thinks you’re a nice guy, and if she’s attracted to that sort, you’re in. But be prepared to do this nearly for every date after this!
No - She thinks two things; either you’re broke, and if you haven’t got anything to offer, goodbye to you! Or the other option is that she would think of you as masculine, taking stand and also if the girl is all about female equality, you’re in!

Also the comment I made about the restaurant being a decent place means decent. Going overboard by taking her to the most expensive restaurant may make her impressed, but it can lead you in trouble. Either she’ll take advantage because she thinks your rich, or you will seriously lose money fast, and if you’re still living with your parents, paying bills, chances are you haven’t got enough to survive for long. Choosing the right place can make a point where she knows your position, so taking her down to the local chip shop will obviously make her hesitant when looking at those $1000 jewelry, but make sure you keep a balance or your out of the game!

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