Touching
Now one mistake many make is to start touching the person as soon as you meet them – take it slow. If you do want to touch her, make it natural, like the shoulders or the arms or even just holding hands. As soon as you do that, build it up slowly and take it from there. It shouldn’t be too hard - just don’t make the mistake of grabbing her chest within 10 minutes of going out or your doomed to be dumped 5 minutes later - thats after being slapped and sworn at for being a sex maniac.
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There is a lot to be said for respecting other people’s “Personal Space Bubble.” I can be a very touchy-feely person, if I am comfortable with the other person. However, someone invades my space….and it’s all over.
What’s really key here isn’t just not grabbing for the goods, it’s learning to read the body language of the other person. If you lean in, do they lean towards you, or do they back away like you were on fire?
Take it slow, and look for the subtle signals, as most people are too polite or nervous to say “Back off garlic breath!”
Comment by Mandi — July 29, 2008 @ 6:17 am